Vision:

We affirm quality of life, in all stages of life. We will carry each other’s burden ~ together.

Mission:

We affirm quality of life, in all stages of life. We will carry each other’s burden ~ together. We believe quality of life includes these important goals for all our community members.

~ Maintaining a Healthy Spirit

~ Maintaining a Healthy Mind

~ Maintaining a Healthy Body

We will meet the challenges we face, knowing we can. Proper people, proper tools, and proper planning will make our community successful. To maintain a healthy spirit, we will recognize the value each community member brings to our community, sharing with each other the necessary tools for living and the necessary companionship to bless our hearts and souls. To maintain a healthy mind, we will ask each community member to actively engage in volunteerism, giving where we can to whom we can. We will engage each other in games and hobbies, enjoying each day to the fullest possible. To maintain a healthy body, we will ask each community member to make full use of the tools provided, sharing with one another the necessary community facilities for walking, stretching and strength. We will encourage and exhort each other in all these things.


Saturday, December 17, 2011

Not one Brick until...

I've been doing a lot of reading and learning. I have another 4.0 under my belt with only 8 classes remaining to my Administrator's license. I am going to get a SMaC list (Great by Choice, Collins) to make sure things are running exactly as they should as this community begins to take shape.

I decided part of my marketing project should be on this blog, just in case some of you decide to read what I've written. Maybe you feel the same way.


1.    Introduction to the program –
Taking care of the caregiver and maximizing the caregiver’s potential (utilizing the 350 Billion dollars spent by America’s informal caregivers annually) to help their loved ones and neighbors is the goal of The Cord of Three Strands Care Center, LLC.  Too many caregivers are “used up” and society then takes over, leaving the caregiver bereft of his or her former duties.[1] The care giving profession takes a toll, with turnover rates well publicized in the long term care industry of 71 percent for nursing assistants and 49 percent for nurses. [2] In the health care industry as a whole, we know that there is a severe nursing shortage and competition for nurses in every facet is stiff.[3]  Most elder care programs just focus on the care for the elder, but, as my doctor put it so well, “Professionals need care, too.”
a)    Nature of product being offered  - 
The product would be multi-generational co-housing[4] for the cared and their caregivers. These could start as small independent-living communities with subsidized housing for potential professional care partners. An entire community of up to 30 households would share resources, including time, in order to maintain a stress free environment in which to keep the frail and disabled within their home community as they age.
b)   What differentiates it from others?
There are no “others” at this stage.  Efforts have been made over the years to meet the ongoing demands of an aging population. Society’s actions at each stage have been to try to assist a growing demographic as a separate “problem” instead of reaching a community solution.[5] The nation’s communities are stretched thin with manpower and funds.
This program combines and shares the resources that are available—then alleviates the stress upon individual families, consumers and medical professionals.
c)    Extent of competition - Currently offered services meet the needs of a small demographic and base the service on age, disability or a medical model (Daycares, adult day services, group homes, CCRC’s, retirement villages).
d) Fee comparison The expense to participate will likely be competitive with CCRC fees. However, this option would likely allow someone the opportunities to share their skills and resources in cooking with a gourmet community kitchen, cleaning with shared tools and time, laundry with roomy and appropriate facilities, landscaping with shared tools and time, gardening with shared tools and time and guest suites outfitted with recovery necessities. Because of the community members’ involvement in reducing costs, living in such a community may end up being a more reasonable option for the community resident in the long term.
2. Issues
Currently, a group of like-minded informal and professional care partners is needed to work on the issue in order to create a community they can live in together. Framing the issue appropriately and selling individuals on the promise of this program is essential.
           It is the next step needed in building this community.
3.  Data Review
Caregivers are being stressed beyond their capabilities to maintain the care level they are accustomed to giving. A search of “Caregiver stress” will yield many stories of burnout and requests for assistance. Currently, stress issues are only relieved by asking others to “come in” to the living situation to help.[6] This project will create a community that will understand the stress issues care givers face and have already planned options for sharing to relieve stress.
Stress yields many physical and psychological results, including high blood pressure, low immunity from illness and absenteeism from work. Stress on elders can lead to confusion, falls, disorientation, and helplessness. Stress on families and the larger community can cost extra money and time for both family and employers.[7]
The Rogers model[8] for the adoption and diffusion of innovation shows we may expect 13.5 percent of the population to be aware of their need and also be unable to pay for insurance or are unsatisfied with the current solutions to their problems. Of those, ten percent might be able to afford and be interested in building this solution. Lincoln, Nebraska had a 2010 census of 258,379 people.[9] Out of that number a potential market of 3,488 people would exist for this initiative. 
4. People who may be ideal adopters of this program include:
·         Aging parents of disabled children; where either the disabled child or the parent is the care partner.
·          Working people disabled by illness or injury, aging beyond their ability for independence.
·         People in their late 30’s or upward, having waited to bear children, now find their parents in need of care. They are caught between generations.
·         Professionals who understand the stresses they are under and wish to mitigate their stress.
Some people don’t want to abandon their families or friends to the current options available to them. This option will allow people to make a choice that is not yet available, perhaps without government funding.
This community would be a viable solution for the following reasons:
·         As people age, their sense of place becomes extremely important.[10] They are not as adaptable to new surroundings and unfamiliar faces.
o   This solution will allow them to stay rooted in the community they’ve come to be familiar with, to heal (or dwell for the remainder of their life) in the community house (if need be), and to still enjoy the activities that occur in the community house.
o   The result for them will be less depression, less medication, and less falls.[11]
·         Caregivers are a special group of people. They live and work for the good they can share with those around them. They find themselves in situations that conflict with caring, or between situations that require them to be in two places at once. They find themselves stressed and without an opportunity to relax and rest.
o   This solution will let them share duties, arrange care, and share time without requiring them to remove themselves from the caring situation.  Professionals will live right in the community to offer advice or extra support.
o   The result will be a more relaxed caregiving community, sharing where they can, and being able to take time away for the important things without fear of “dropping the ball.”
·         As children grow they need a place of learning and opportunities to stretch their capabilities. Their opportunities to learn are often in the classroom, on the playground, or in front of a computer, because the availability of adult supervision is stretched thin. Single parents who are also working as nursing assistants may find such a community supportive for their families, and giving them new growth opportunities for their family’s future in the long run. Their income often places them in a situation that either forces them out of the “business” of caring or of needing assistance from society to remain in a job which is so satisfying. Considering the outcome for more than a few children born in poverty, this would be an excellent expenditure of public dollars, should the group decide to seek public support.[12]
o   This solution will allow children to learn from elders, professionals, and family within the co-housing community. They will learn how to share and become caregivers themselves as they age.
o   The result will be adults who have learned how society can solve problems together, and will continue that pattern of leadership in all the vocations they choose to engage in.


[1] PDF, Valuing the Invaluable, AARP, Valuing the Invaluable PDF AARP
[2] Pratt, Long Term Care: Managing across the Continuum, p. 85
[7] The pathology of stress, from Helpguide.org, http://helpguide.org/mental/stress_signs.htm
[10] Thomas, William, What are Old People For? P. 202, “Place is vitally important to elders because the smaller one’s world becomes, the more precious the immediate surroundings are.”
[11]  PDF : Kane, et al. Resident Outcomes in Small-House Nursing Homes: A Longitudinal Evaluation of the Initial Green House Program Resident Outcomes PDF

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Seeds to plant, seeds to grow ~ the blessing of the seed.

A friend of mine wanted to know if she should continue her efforts to be a small business person. I told her that everything God gives us is a seed.

Everything we are blessed with on this earth requires constant attention to help it grow and stay strong, whether it is friendships, our bodies and minds, even the dollar we earn. We think that the seed we planted was the work we did to earn that dollar, but that's not entirely true. We have "seed money" which is then turned into an investment to give us even more return. We buy a property for a good price and a good monthly investment, and we find it appreciating in value enough to get a modest return when we sell the property. We buy food to give us and our neighbors sustenance by which we are able to create more opportunities for ourselves and our community.

We have the thoughts of better things germinating in our brains, watching and waiting for them to sprout into a complete idea. We are well. We have seeds.

There is not anything under the sun that has not been given to us in full glory. There is always something that works better with a little help, a little care, and a little watching over. If we think of the beginning of anything in its raw material state, it took an engineer to conceive it, a craftsman to build it, a care taker to maintain it, and because of all that, we have a community to build upon.

We have seeds to plant, and seeds to watch germinate, and the joy of the harvest. We have the joy of spring, when the seeds have been dormant for the winter. We have the kiss of warm breezes, when the smell of the flowers waft on the air.

What a blessing we have in seeds! God is good! Stay grounded in the truth, and May this wonderful season yield seeds that grow for you!

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Learning to take Small Steps to Big Change

I've decided my blog needs to be more closely aligned with what I want to accomplish than just my values. You can read my older posts about relief, but I've decided I can't tackle the entire world! I can tackle the problems of one little corner of my world, and if everyone else reacts this way, we will all be able to help each other.

Consider what may be the future for us as we age. Right now, an astounding 40 percent of people over 100 years of age reside in long term care facilities. (Omaha World Herald, A Grim Picture for the Elderly) We desperately need to change the way we view our own future and begin to build the kind of community that allows us to stay right in our own spheres of influence.

I foresee a community house on the corner (right in each one's own neighborhood), where each community member can share a gourmet kitchen and other resources, where their best skills and hobbies are enhanced and where people can recover when the doctors and hospitals say they can't go home yet (home is just down the street). Such a community could also provide for health care professionals to live among them.

Imagine the people this idea could help ~
  • Parents who must also care for their aging parents.
  • Grandparents who must watch grandchildren so their children can work.
  • Aging Parents of a disabled child or Disabled care partners for aging parents.
  • People who wonder how they will continue a meaningful life if they become unable to stay at home.
  • People at risk for long term care, keeping them healthy with regular assistance as needed.
  • Health Professionals who need extra support to continue their mission.
We can make this happen. I hope you'll join me!

P.S. I can't upload these images without permission, but you can look at these and get some idea of what co-housing is all about!  Google image search for Co-Housing

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Green House Promise of Greater Things To Come!

I have an apology to make. I honestly thought the Green House concept was conceived to be the end all and be all of Culture Change, the bowing to the best possible end for our elders.

One thing that was said today in the Green House workshop in Birmingham energized both Jim and I. We don't have enough life left to worry about anything but doing the same thing Green House adopters in 28 states have done. We can't worry about the consequences of pushing the envelope on outmoded regulations that do nothing but create busy work for our hard working state HHS regulators. Our world needs to change. Our elders deserve nothing less.

That statement? "We're still evolving." Thank you, Robert Jenkins. Thank you, St. Martins in the Pines for hosting this informative session! The weather was fabulous! Thank you, Dr. Thomas, for getting this ball rolling!

I came away with a renewed sense of doing the right thing, of being in the right place at the right time. Of one goal. ONLY the best for our generation and the generations to come.

Jim and I discussed this before we stopped for the night in Nashville, to wait out a blizzard on the way home. We won't stop. We are going to push Culture Change from the rooftops. We are going to do whatever we can.

We will endeavor for the highest form of relief. Jim said to me at dinner, "They told us it wasn't much fun to be the first. The pioneers had arrows in their backs." He paused. "What were those three things that Dr. Thomas wrote in the book [In the Arms of Elders]?"

"Loneliness, Boredom, and Helplessness," I replied. "Yes!" he said. "I'm not going to stop! I'll make them hear the news. I'm good at that."

I am so blessed.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Some great quotes about aging in my email...

They weren't all aging, but I did pick out a few I liked...

I don't feel old. I don't feel anything until noon. Then it's time for my nap.

- Bob Hope


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We could certainly slow the aging process down if it had to work its way through Congress.

- Will Rogers

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Maybe it's true that life begins at fifty, but everything else starts to wear out, fall out or spread out.

- Phyllis Diller

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By the time a man is wise enough to watch his step, he's too old to go anywhere.

- Billy Crystal


If we can't laugh and enjoy living, maybe it's time we found another life!

Hugs, Karen

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Doing nothing...

From ChangingAging.org, this blog post about doing nothing is great! I love the pic of the sunset on the waters.

http://changingaging.org/2011/01/30/do-nothing-for-two-minutes/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+changingaging%2FUkmf+%28ChangingAging.org%29

And Al Power promoted a blog about mindfulness, I'll put it on a blogroll on here.

It's healthy to relax - but it's also healthy to take a minute to get up and move about! I a "Gadget" on my desktop that lets me know I have been at my computer for an hour! It's time to go do something, anything!

Live healthy! Stay in touch! I have a paper I wrote that'll be great for this blog!

Karen

Sunday, January 23, 2011

There's vision, and then there's MISSION

I am an avid follower of Dr. Thomas' blog, ChangingAging.org. Today he posted a call for more social networking revolving around Culture Change.

Most of you who know me, know that I am planning to build a community that includes as many of the tools and people and design as is necessary to make sure that people do not have to age away from the people they love, and need around them.

I plan to escape the winter snow of Nebraska in a couple of weeks, for sunny (? I can hope, this year) Alabama, and a Green House workshop. I am keeping at this project because I must. My heart is so full of the need, I don't want to see any more of the types of nursing homes that don't really want to consider themselves "home." They can call themselves "home" all they want... it doesn't make it without a true effort to restore the things their residents lose when they move in!

So, here it is...

Vision:
We affirm quality of life, in all stages of life. We will carry each other’s burden ~ together.
Mission:
We affirm quality of life, in all stages of life. We will carry each other’s burden ~ together. We believe quality of life includes these important goals for all our community members.
~ Maintaining a Healthy Spirit
~ Maintaining a Healthy Mind
~ Maintaining a Healthy Body
We will meet the challenges we face, knowing we can. Proper people, proper tools, and proper planning will make our community successful. To maintain a healthy spirit, we will recognize the value each community member brings to our community, sharing with each other the necessary tools for living and the necessary companionship to bless our hearts and souls. To maintain a healthy mind, we will ask each community member to actively engage in volunteerism, giving where we can to whom we can. We will engage each other in games and hobbies, enjoying each day to the fullest possible. To maintain a healthy body, we will ask each community member to make full use of the tools provided, sharing with one another the necessary community facilities for walking, stretching and strength. We will encourage and exhort each other in all these things.


Inspiration often comes from personal experience. I have two fond memories, both of whom passed away in 2009. My mother...












and my husband's aunt.


The memories of their smiles, their wisdom and their love for living will guide me well as I go forward!!

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Gerontology, Here I come!

I'm in my second quarter of study for Long Term Care Administration, to make sure I am familiar with the ins and outs of the field, since we want to build a community that combines the best of both worlds.

I think that much of what has come so far is a beautiful reach. While everyone finds themselves at the end at some point, and ready to place their hand in the hand of God, our hands should be able to reach beyond the veil of illness or disability. We should provide a daily, comforting presence to family and friends, just as if we had always lived in a small town as pioneers.

I've been blessed. Another quarter of 4.0 grades is within reach! I think I've spent a good 31 years away from a field I was destined to be in, and I have been brought back, full circle. This "affinity" for the field has made me decide to continue on as a gerontologist - studying for the best of aging well, and acting on what I've learned.

Aging well, to me, doesn't mean "staying young", but being young at heart! Attitude, seeking quality within our lives each day, and offering a piece of yourself to the world at large. We cannot fail to make life better for one, because when we do, we make life better for all.

Blessings! Hugs! Karen